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I never really had an interest in disability aids, the reason being that I am only young and what teenager thinks of these sorts of things. Also I don’t need one just yet! But ever since my Dad had an accident, him only being young also, and needing a wheelchair, it hit me that not only is it elderly people who need help and assistance but anyone at any age can need to use disability equipment such as wheelchairs, walking frames and many others.

My Dad had an accident while at work as he did work on buildings and fell from a great height which damaged his back for life. He now has to use a wheelchair and can’t move around as easily as he could or would like to, him only being in his 40’s, he can’t do all the things he should be able to do at his age.

Although he may not be able to do ALL the things he wants to do he can still do a lot of things but if there wasn’t such thing as disability aids I don’t know if he would be able to do anything. Over the years his back has got a lot better than what it was and he no longer needs to stay in his wheelchair. He sometimes has enough strength to use crutches to help him get along.  He uses the crutches around the house but when he goes out he prefers to use his wheelchair as it can be very tiring walking round the shops using crutches and may cause more pain or problems for his back.

Seeing my Dad go from working everyday to having to be in a wheelchair for the rest of his life had a big impact on my life, seeing as I thought disability aids were just for elderly people but now I realise things change so quickly and you never know when you may need this sort of help or assistance yourself, but if it wasn’t for wheelchairs and crutches my Dad wouldn’t be half as happy as he is today doing the things that he still can achieve instead of nothing at all.

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Meta Patterns & Genius – A Simple Game To Increase A Child’s Intelligence

As a side effect in my life long study of human excellence, genius and creativity, I have discovered ONE particular thinking pattern that makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE in:

- understanding the world
- problem solving
- innovation and creativity
- and even inner harmony.

This is a meta filter which people LEARN, they are NOT born “that way”, and it is a really profound one that makes the difference between a great thinker and someone who isn’t, at the end of the day.

This filter is about whether a person sorts all manner of incoming information by difference, or by similarity.

Fascinatingly, across the board, children’s games are games of “difference”.

Spot the difference; Sesame Street’s “One of these things just doesn’t belong here …”; and many, MANY other strategies across the board and all the educational modalities reward this “sorting by differences”.

The side effect of sorting by difference is to compartmentalise the world into ever smaller blocks of detail; this leads directly, and I mean directly, in completely logical cause and effect fashion to losing the ability to “see the big picture”.

In neuro-linguistic terms, the movement from a normal sized picture into more and more detail is called “chunking down”.

This is when we stop looking at the car, and instead focus on a single wheel, and then the hub of a single wheel, and the the screw with the hub, and then a single turn of the screw, and deeper and deeper into the details of the thing, until we’re in quarks and neutrons territory and no-one knows or cares that we ever started with a bright red motor car.

Now, there is nothing wrong per se with “chunking down” into details of a thing; where it becomes immensely DANGEROUS for a person, and for many people in their collective societies, is when EVERYBODY thinks like that – apart from a few “visionaries” that is, of course, who will become the leaders.

Aha!

A general MUST be able to see the bigger picture; a king must; an industry leader; ANY leader MUST have the magical ability to zoom out and perceive huge arrays of objects IN PERSPECTIVE in order to discover the meta patterns that make up the WHOLE situation.

In the education systems the world over, children are not raised and trained to become LEADERS. That explains why the “downchunk movement” into detail is being taught and fostered at every turn; people who are only comfortable with “small chunk thinking” and will turn immediately to chunking down EVEN FURTHER in moments of crisis, because that movement is THE ONLY movement they know and are familiar with, make great soldiers, factory workers, low level clerics – great ants, in other words.

But the fact is that to “think in the opposite direction”, to zoom out to see the bigger picture, is a simple as a child’s game – we just need to reverse it.

Instead of playing endless versions of, “What’s the difference?” we start asking instead, “What’s the SAME?”

It is then the meta patterns become revealed and the MOVEMENT OUT towards the “bigger picture” begins to occur naturally.

This is such a simple, and yet such an INCREDIBLE thing.

Consider this.

We may ask, “What’s THE SAME about a black boy, and a white boy?” and the answer is ready and clear – “They’re both boys!”

We may ask, “What’s the SAME about a little boy and a little girl?” and we may receive the answer, “They’re both human beings.”

EVERY person needs to be able to ZOOM BOTH WAYS – into the details, and out to biggest possible picture, and back again.

EVERY person CAN do that – it is just a question of encouraging the neglected and secret “bigger picture” movement from an early age, and THAT in itself is as simple as to say to a child, “What’s THE SAME about your teddy and your doll?”

For any adult who seeks to really re-connect to their own creativity and POWER TO DETECT THE META PATTERNS of our lives and our environments, it is the same game.

“What’s THE SAME about the last five movies you’ve watched? What’s THE SAME about the last 15 successful advertising campaigns the competitors ran? What’s THE SAME about me and other people?”

There is a structural re-connection that is astonishing which occurs so naturally as a by product of asking that simple question, which is indeed profound, and profoundly healing.

I do believe that the answers lie in the meta patterns, and in our ability to PERCEIVE THEM CLEARLY.

If we get, as individuals AND as societies, those meta patterns right, then the details will NATURALLY take care of themselves – that’s the way it works.

“They” say that the devil lies in the detail – it could well be so that salvation can be found indeed, in all of us starting to pay much more attention to “the bigger picture”.

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Leaving home and beginning your college career can be absolutely wonderful and extremely stressful. So whether you are a senior in high school preparing to go to college or you are at college looking for information about how to adjust to this huge change that has become your life, the following advice from an experienced teen life coaching may be for you.

You are entering college, a new world. You have left everything that is familiar to you behind, including, your family, friends, and school, community and your dog and cat. You may be an hour away by car or six hours away by plane. You are feeling out of sorts, lonely, too much time on your hands, awkward, etc. Your roommates are not saying any of this out loud and neither are you.

You want to call home and tell your parents that you just made the biggest mistake of your life and they should get in the car immediately or send you a ticket to come home. However, as you look around at the upper classmen, they look like they are okay, have it all together, wow- they even have friends! You are determined to figure out what is going on with you. Why am I so homesick? you wonder.

The first thing I want you to know is that your feelings are 100% normal and that the majority of freshman are experiencing exactly the same thing that you are. I have put together for you a list of things you can do to feel better.

This is not a recipe, with each ingredient dependent on the other, rather these are choices you can make to make this huge transition into college life and get rid of the homesick blues.

Talk with your roommates about what you are feeling. Most likely they are feeling it, too.

Stay in touch with your family and friends, but not in place of college activities.

Write an email to a friend at another college and share your feelings, compare notes.

Do something you enjoy like, exercise, art, writing, reading, and taking a walk. Dont sit around your dorm

room alone waiting for life to happen.

Ask someone to go the cafeteria with you for a meal. No one wants to eat alone.

Try to eat in moderation (watch the junk food), get enough sleep (invest in a good set of earplugs) and watch your intake of alcohol and drugs, which can all act as depressants. (In your effort to take a break from your depressive thoughts, using drugs can throw you into even a more depressed mood.)

Give your self-time, dont put yourself down. You are entering a new phase of your life.

Sometimes teens cant get going. If you feel that you need an extra push, nudge, support, consider a free Teen Life Coaching session. In one 45-minute call you could develop a plan to help you on your way to ridding the College Homesick Blues.

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